Matthew was a loving husband, son, father, uncle, and brother. Throughout his life, he found joy in playing, watching and coaching volleyball, a passion that followed him. He went on to mentor others and stay connected to the game he loved. Known for always lending a helping hand and offering a listening ear, he constantly put others before himself, embodying kindness and selflessness in everything he did. He had a deep love for cooking and proudly held the title of the family’s “gravy king,” delighting everyone with his culinary creations. In his downtime, he enjoyed cheering on Nebraska sports and the Kansas City Chiefs, never missing a game and always supporting his teams with unwavering loyalty.
He is survived by his wife, Sarah Cook, and two daughters, Mercades and Ruby Shockley of Lincoln; sibling Nichole Scholtens and her husband Gregg; and nephew and niece, Bryce and Delaney, of Springfield, MO. Along with many aunts, uncles, and cousins, he is also preceded in death by his grandparents and uncle.
A Celebration of Matthew’s life will be held at 1:00 PM on Friday, May 23, 2025, at Roper and Sons Midtown Chapel, 4300 O St, Lincoln, NE. Refreshments will be available following the celebration of life. Memorials in Matthew’s name can be sent to the family in care of Roper and Sons Funeral Home, 4300 O Street, Lincoln, NE 68510.
Matthew will be deeply missed but forever remembered in the hearts of those who loved him.