If you’ve just lost a parent, or someone else you deeply love, our hearts go out to you. In the midst of your grief, you’re now faced with planning a funeral. One of the first questions you may be thinking is: When should the service be held? You might find yourself wondering what’s “normal” or if there’s a “right” time or day to do it.
The honest answer is: there’s no single right day or time. Every family is different, and every situation is unique. At Roper & Sons in Lincoln, we’re here to gently guide you through these decisions, helping you find what works best for your family and your loved one’s memory.
Is There a Waiting Period?
There’s no required waiting period before holding a funeral, but there are a few things to keep in mind. If arrangements weren’t pre-planned, it can take a little time to make all the decisions and coordinate the details. Travel plans for out-of-town family members, scheduling with the church, and preparing the cemetery all factor into the timing.
For many families, services happen within a week or two of the passing, but again—there’s no hard rule. We’ll work with you to make sure everything comes together in a way that feels right.
Religious customs can also play a role. Some traditions ask that funerals happen quickly, while others have specific rituals and timing guidelines. We’re always here to help honor those wishes with care and respect.
What Day of the Week Is Best?
This often depends on the people involved. We know families are juggling travel, work, and sometimes even school schedules, so try to be as flexible as possible. Many families prefer holding services later in the week—Fridays and Saturdays—but a funeral can be held any day that works for you.
If you’re planning a funeral within a church, we’ll also work around their availability. Sundays are less common for services, since many cemeteries don’t do burials on that day, and some funeral homes may have additional fees. We’ll go over all of those details together so you can make the best decision.
Planning a Funeral: Morning or Afternoon Service?
Traditionally, funerals are held in the morning or early afternoon—usually wrapping up by around 5 p.m. These times allow for a smoother schedule, especially when there’s a burial afterward. But again, we’ll do our best to work with whatever time you feel is right.
Even during busy weeks, we’ll do everything we can to find a time that honors your wishes and fits the needs of your family. You’ll never be just another appointment on a calendar to us—we truly care about creating space for your grief, your memories, and your love.
At Roper & Sons Funeral Home here in Lincoln, we know this isn’t something anyone ever wants to plan for. It’s painful, and it’s hard, but you don’t have to do it alone. Whether you need guidance on timing, support with arrangements, or just someone to listen, we’re here. With compassion, experience, and a deep respect for your family’s needs, we’ll help you honor your loved one in a way that feels meaningful and comforting. Whenever you’re ready, we’ll be by your side.