Obituary

Tony James Botts

April 17, 1981 - July 9, 2025

Tony Botts passed away peacefully on July 9, 2025, at the age of 44, surrounded by family and love.

Born on April 17, 1981, in Brooklyn, New York, Tony was the beloved son of Leslie M. Botts, the younger brother of Joseph Flavigny Jr., and the cherished twin brother of Terrance J. Botts.

He spent his childhood in New Bedford, Massachusetts, where he attended school and was raised in the Christian Apostolic Pentecostal faith. A devoted believer, Tony grew up singing in the church choir, where his love for music and worship first took root.

In 2009, Tony moved to California, where he began his journey in senior retail management. His leadership skills and integrity led him to high-level roles in operations, policy, and training. During the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, he served faithfully as Policy & Training Coordinator at Horne, providing structure, guidance, and compassion during a time of global uncertainty. He served in this role for nearly four years before the program ended.

In March 2025, Tony relocated to Lincoln, Nebraska, seeking rest, renewal, and the presence of family. While we had hoped for his recovery, the Lord had another plan and gently called Tony home.

Tony will be remembered for his joyful spirit, bold sense of humor, and generous heart. He loved singing, especially karaoke, and was a true music lover at heart. He found joy in bowling, relaxing to cooking shows, and spending time in fellowship. Whether through worship, laughter, or just showing up for the people he loved — Tony had a gift for making others feel seen, heard, and cherished.

He is survived by his mother, Leslie M. Botts; his older brother, Joseph Flavigny Jr.; and his twin brother, Terrance J. Botts.

Also surviving him are his maternal grandmother, Betty Wilson; his aunts, Yvonne Botts, Rochelle “Tweety” Finney, Tania Finney, and Bobbie Finney; and his uncles, Charlie Botts, Raymond Wilson, and Rodney Wilson.

Tony also leaves behind a host of cousins, and the lights of his life — his two nephews, Joey Flavigny and Darian Flavigny, and his niece, Ari Flavigny.

Tony’s life was a reflection of grace, resilience, and unwavering faith. Though he will be deeply missed, his memory lives on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him.

 

Share a Memory or Condolence

July 18, 2025

I will forever love and miss you Tony! My heart hurts more and more. I know you are not in pain anymore and you are resting in the arms of the Lord. What a wonderful son and good brother . I miss your voice the laughing and when needed giving me true advice. You always gave balance to any situation. I know we will meet again in heaven, love you so much,mommy

– Leslie m.Botts
July 15, 2025

Terrance and family, I am deeply saddened by your loss. Tony had a big impact on me the short time that I knew him. May your family be wrapped in Gods love as you move through this time.

– Laura S.
July 15, 2025

I wanted to take a moment to express my heartfelt appreciation for the time we spent working together. It was truly an extreme pleasure to collaborate with Tony, even from a distance. From the very beginning, his leadership and dedication shone through, with a remarkable ability to inspire those around him & his commitment to being of true service everyone is something I deeply admired. His ability to find time to provide support and guidance were invaluable and I often found myself looking up to him for kind words always with a generous smile. Tony’s positive spirit and genuine care for others have left a lasting impact on everyone fortunate enough to know him. I have no doubt his spirit will continue to live on in every life he touched. I am better for havig such a wonderful influence and light in a difficult time for our communities.

– Jessica B
July 14, 2025

I will always cherish your smile and hearing you sing. talking smack on the phone I was glad that I got to see you when you came back from California. You’re truly gonna be miss We still gonna have that Fish Fry in honoring you much Love ❤️

– Renae L Roberts
July 14, 2025

⸻ To My Beloved Cousin Tony, In your passing, my heart feels a pain I can’t put into words. I miss you more than I ever thought possible. You were truly a beacon of light — full of love, laughter, and joy — and everyone who had the blessing of knowing you felt your warmth. You lit up every room, every conversation, every moment, just by being yourself. Your spirit was rare, your heart was pure, and your presence was a gift. It’s hard to imagine family gatherings without your smile, your jokes, and your energy that lifted us all. But I know your love lives on in each of us, and I carry you with me in my heart every single day. To the family: take heart, because this isn’t the end. We will see Tony again. Until that day comes, let’s honor him by living with the same love, joy, and light that he gave so freely. With my deepest love and sympathies, Cousin Kermie

– Cousin Kermie
July 14, 2025

For the times we shared together as kids, for the life you built as a man, for the memories all will hold of you now and forever. Till we meet again cousin. Troy

– Troy Botts
July 13, 2025

Tony, I will never forget our great times together with you and Terrence singing for me and Lana in the night clubs. You guys always had great voices. I will always remember all our memories . You will always be remembered here and I can see you in heaven singing with me and Lana. Your light soul and heart are always here. I send my love to you up in heaven. God needed an angel so he took you but I am here watching over you up there.love always dee

– Denise ricciotti
July 13, 2025

I’m heartbroken to hear about my highschool friend Tony, I send my condolences to all his family and friends especially Terrance 😔 Tony would wait for me in nbhs gold house and accompany me to class together and his sense of humor always made my day. Rest in peace Tony 🙏

– Adele H.
July 12, 2025

Tony James Botts was more than a coworker—he was a mentor, a leader, and a true role model. He led with kindness, integrity, and strength. His positivity, compassion, and unwavering support made a lasting impact on everyone who had the privilege to work with him. Tony brought light into every room and inspired us all to be better—both professionally and personally. He will be deeply missed but never forgotten

– Ani Hagh
July 11, 2025

There are too many memories to count that I’ve had with Tony, that I will cherish forever. We grew up as young adults together and became forever family. He was someone I could always count on, and could always make me laugh. We talked of the future often, but it seems God had another plan. Until we meet again in the clouds, Tony will be forever in my thoughts and in my heart.

– Abel Lima
July 11, 2025

God bless you Tony, and may our Lord’s promise of eternal life bring solace to all of your loved ones. You indeed left us too soon, but you stamped in our hearts a person who was consistent, stoic, loving, grateful, and always respectful. God’s grace surrounds you, and remember, “Everything will be ok!”

– Jennie Charles
July 11, 2025

Never in my life did I imagine saying these words—not at the age of 44. Nobody saw this day coming. Nobody wanted to see this day coming. The road to healing was right in front of us. But God called you home Tony… you were my best friend. You were my twin—my other half We walked this earth together for 44 years. So many memories. So many laughs. So many tears. We worked together in so many places. We were roommates since we were 16 years old. I’ll miss all the nights we stayed up talking, laughing—just being brothers. Now, the house feels empty without you. But I know this: you’re no longer in pain. You’re resting now, in the arms of Jesus. You’re in His presence. And I hold on to what I know is true—to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. You loved the Lord, Tony. And I know, without a doubt, I’ll see you again in the rapture. But I’d be lying if I said I didn’t want you here with me—right now. Still, I know I have to march on. I’m trying my best to make sense of all of this. Trying to stay strong. Until we meet again… I love you with all my heart

– Terrance “ Twin” Botts

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