Obituary

Iris Ann Winkelhake

July 1, 1944 - January 22, 2024

Iris Ann Winkelhake, 79, of Lincoln passed away January 22, 2024. Born July 1, 1944, in McCook, NE to LaVern and Frances (Ring) Lyons.

Iris was number 2 of 10 children. She graduated from Hayes Center High School in 1962 and graduated from St. Elizabeth’s School of Nursing in 1965.  She received a Bachelors in Nursing at Union College and a Bachelors and Masters in Education from the University of Nebraska.

Iris married Roger Winkelhake on August 13, 1966 in Agnew, Nebraska.  They lived and worked in Lincoln their entire 57 years of marriage. Iris always enjoyed when Big Red did well, as a “win” made Roger really happy!  They enjoyed tail-gating with friends and traveling to watch the Huskers.

Iris enjoyed learning, reading everything and anything; a daily crossword puzzle solver, she knew how to win at Scrabble. Iris was a serious bridge player. (No kibitzing allowed!)  She had a great sense of humor which she shared freely.  Iris was a true supporter of family and friends; welcoming to all.

Iris, a retired Registered Nurse, worked at St. Elizabeth’s Hospital in the Critical Care Unit. Later in her nursing career, she was an instructor in the LPN nursing program at Southeast Community College for approximately 25 years.

Iris was a member of First Lutheran Church, a member of the Women’s Martha Circle; a member of the American and Nebraska Nursing Association for 53 years and on the board of the Nebraska State Board of Nursing for 8 years.

Family members include her husband Roger; siblings and spouses,  Alice Parker, Sahuarita, AZ, Jane and Bob Lyons, Omaha, Michelle and Bill Lyons, Colorado Springs, CO, Mary and Howard Pachman, Omaha, Penny Lyons, Wilda and Richard Lyons,  Ginger Lyons, Jennifer Lyons and Bob Robinson, all of Lincoln, Regina and Doug Twyman, Wiesbaden, Germany, Ginny Kinkaid Lyons, Portland, OR; many nieces and nephews, great and great, great nieces and nephews, and several cousins. Preceded in death by her parents and two brothers, Fred and Bernie.

Memorial service: 11:00 am Monday, January 29, 2024, First Lutheran Church, 1551 South 70th Street, Lincoln.  Luncheon will follow the service.

Memorials to Fresh Start or Friendship Home of Lincoln.

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1551 South 70th Street, Lincoln, Nebraska

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May 1, 2025

I was one of her students at SCC many moons ago and was privileged to benefit from her brilliant mind, quick wit great sense of humor and kind and generous nature. She was a real mensch or fabulous human being!

– Earl Pitsch
February 4, 2024

She handed out money like candy to those whom she felt need some extra cash. One time i was riding with her and she came to a screeching halt and backed up. She saw someone she felt needed her help. In Kansas City, after attending a conference, we’re pulling out of the parking garage and I ask her, “Which way do we go?” She exclaimed, WHICH WAY DO WE GO!!!!???” Guess I thought I could count on her to know the way home! Oh, that’s right, Lucy always knew the way to go! To know Iris was to love her. There was NEVER a more caring soul than Iris, always lending a helping hand. “Well done thou good and faithful servant!” I miss you. Roger and family, our deepest sympathy in the loss of Iris and may God’s everlasting arms lift you up!

– Sheila Exstrom/Lucy Hansen
January 30, 2024

I was very sorry to hear about Aunt I’s passing but am glad she’s no longer in discomfort. She was such a kind, sweet, intelligent, generous and fun-loving woman and I remember her fondly. She and Roger were always so upbeat and fun when they would visit and I cherish the memories of my time with them. Hugs to you Roger, you are in my thoughts.

– Suzanne Parker
January 28, 2024

I came to know & appreciate Iris while on an advisory board for nursing ed @ SCC, Someone has already mentioned her sense of humor; it was an important part of her personality.. I will always remember her for saying it was no longer important in nursing education to make sure the corners of the beds we were making were tight & even!! May she rest in peace & provide entertaining stories for the angels!!

– Pat Meierhenry
January 27, 2024

Iris and Roger were both great friends of mine. I have known for many years. Rest in Peace Iris 🙏

– Delfs Linder
January 26, 2024

Iris was a good egg with a generous soul and she will be missed. I always enjoyed seeing her with Roger at the shop as they filled the car with books for their family, friends, and neighborhood kids. I think she was a gentle force to be reckoned with. My deepest condolences to Roger and the family.

– Leslie Huerta
January 26, 2024

Iris was my instructor at SCC. She was an amazing and patient woman. She was a true blessing in the lives of many.

– Janet L Bartek
January 25, 2024

Iris and Roger were a generous and loving couple. It was my pleasure to work with and know them at First Lutheran. Her presence and grace will be missed.

– Cyndi Crouse
January 25, 2024

Iris is a beautiful soul. She will be missed by all who knew her and loved her. I will cherish the time that I had with her. Sincere sympathy to Roger and her family.

– Deborah Price
January 25, 2024

My deepest sympathies to Roger and his family.

– Mark Brohman
January 24, 2024

Mrs. Winkelhake was my favorite teacher at SCC. I loved her sense of humor! May she rest in peace.

– Shari Hecht Koelzer
January 24, 2024

I worked with Iris at SCC for many years. My condolences to her family.

– Kay Humlicek Duncan

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